How to Make Every Day Mother's Day...

Convincing people that moms deserve a break every day is harder than you might think. Although people are quick to honor their mothers with trinkets and a day without laundry once a year, they are often unaware of the enormous sacrifices that mothers make over the span of a lifetime.

1. Thank her every day. Many mothers feel that the little things they do that make life easier for everyone else goes unnoticed. Saying thank you to her for the little things will make her feel appreciated.


2. Help her. Every mother, especially a mother of small children, is sleep deprived. Despite this fact, she has to stay busy from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep just to do all of the things that have to be done for her family to survive. Helping her out by doing some things for her every day will make her think that every day is Mother's Day.


3. Allow her to relax. Moms are busy and usually have very little down time to relax. Find ways to encourage her to relax. For example, invite her to sit down a watch a movie with the family.


4. Do something unexpected. Think of something you think she would enjoy. You can take her out to dinner or take her to have a manicure or massage. A child can clean up his room without being told.


5. Hire a maid to come once a week or more often to do the major cleaning tasks take the stress of having to do those tasks off of Mom. You can have the maid come for a just a couple of hours or have her stay all day. Either way, her services will make Mom feel appreciated.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Make a Mom Happy

1. Pay attention. No mom in the history of momkind has ever been happy about having to repeat herself. Listen to her the first time and pay attention. Make an effort to really do this and watch the happy happen.


2. Do your share of the housework without being asked or reminded. Make your bed, pick up after yourself, cook a meal, swish the toilet, wash your own dishes, etc. Don’t wait for her to remind you. Whatever you do, don’t wait for her to do it for you.


3. Buy her a present. Sure, it’s the thought that counts, but every mom has a collection of homemade candy dishes and cards. Spend a couple of dollars out of your own money on something she will really enjoy and watch her eyes light up. Sometimes, the effort can mean even more than the thought.


4. Give her a real day off. Make it a full day and don’t cop out by choosing Mother’s Day or her birthday. Pick a random day and handle as many of the things she normally does as possible. Do the laundry, grab the mail, pick up groceries, make dinner and pick up younger kids at school.


5. Be nice. Have a good attitude and be project good cheer throughout the day. Be polite and resist the urge to argue. A day without sarcasm or arguments can make even the most hardened mom happy.


6. Take her out. Take her to breakfast and her favorite bookstore. Go bead or yarn shopping if that’s her thing or take her to the racetrack if that’s what she would prefer. Whatever you do, make sure it is something she wants to do.


7. Talk with her. Ask her about her day and give her all the time she needs to answer. Let her go into detail or run off on tangents. People do a lot of talking to and at moms, but not nearly as much talking with them.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Why Do Jerks Get All The Women

I got a very interesting

lesson for you today. It will be one of the MOST crucial because now, we are facing our first challenge: determining what basket women will throw you into. Let's get into it:

Can you remember the last time you saw a gorgeous young woman walking down the street but some ugly-mug has HIS arm around her?

Maybe in high-school, at college or at work this incident has happened to you more than on one occasion.

You had your eye on this girl you thought was off the scalein the looks department and you COULDN'T wait to ask her out or to get her number get her number but then ... you realized she had a boyfriend happens to be a complete jerk!

He treates her like garbage and yes, she even tells YOU about her relationship problems with him.

Does that ring a bell?

I bet half of my lunch that you were wondering why she was telling you all about her problems and NEVER wanted more than just to be friends.

I know that all this time you were trying to figure out the big WHY's and even said to yourself "Hmm, that is weird. I would treat her just like she DESERVES to be treated - like a princess. Why the hell does she not go out with me but with this jerk who treats her like sh*t instead?"

You really wanna know WHY you never got any?

Think about it. First of all, you ARE her girlfriend. That's why she's telling you about all her problems and shares stories about guys with you.

Secondly, you AREN'T seeing clearly whats really going on here: Why do you think she is going out with such a jerk in the first place? Why is she fucking him and not you?

Oh, might it be because ... he is hot? Yep he is! She is feeling that emotion that tells her "wow, this guy is hot!" when she's around him. In other words: she is ATTRACTED to him!

He makes her feel this magical word called ATTRACTION. You on the other hand were nothing more than being "nice" and "polite".

You see, women aren't attracted to nice guys because they are BORING. Jerks are the complete opposite of a clingy, whiney nice guy, they're FUN and challenging!

While you would buy her dinner, invite her to the movies and act all "you look very nice tonight" he just goes like "C'mere baby. I don't want you to wearing that top when I'm not around capiche? Ok good, gimme a kiss".

He does what HE wants, demands, plays by his ownrules and is pretty arrogant as well.

But how come women are attracted to bad boys so much more than they are to nice guys that would treat them so much better?

Tomorrow I will talk more about bad boys while you might

play it nice and be all polite but he is bad, he is mean, he is

abusive and he is an asshole. BUT ... he is getting all the girls while the wusses are staring blank at the wall alone.

It's time to fix this once and for all.

I DON'T want you to become a jerk or mean bastard whendealing with women, but it is better to be bad than good!Being nice doesn't get you anywhere.You'll discover all the time-tested tips, tricks and techniquesabout ATTRACTING and dating women more easily and quickly

than you've ever thought possible.

-- ALAGARAJAN --