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Sunday, March 8, 2009

Make A Call After Your First Date

When You Are Supposed To Make A Call After Your First Date

Though it may seem like trivia, “when to call after the first date?” is an important question. Calling too soon may make you appear to be the clingy sort. On the other hand, waiting too long before you make a call may cast you in the light of a person who doesn’t care much.

Once the date is over, the first impression that you have made must be strengthened (if the first impression was good, of course). If due to some unfortunate circumstance, you did not really create an impression you wanted to, you could call in order to rectify your mistakes.

What does one talk about after a date? If the date went well, that is, if you both enjoyed and you believe that things could work out between you, then you should ideally have no trouble looking for things to talk about. Tell the other how you had such a good time with them. Ask them whether they enjoyed. Then you could discuss about meeting up again.

The best time to call is 3-4 days after your first date. That gives the other person time to think and examine all the positives and negatives of the date. You may be a little uncomfortable giving the other time to rethink of all the follies you may have made, but it is for the best. A relationship can never work if either partner remains ignorant about the other’s drawbacks. Waiting for a few days also makes the other a little anxious about why you have not called so far or whether they made some mistake during the date. This makes them all the more eager to please when you do call up. Also, during this time, your date might just call you up and then you will know for sure that they did have a good time!

Calling immediately after a date or even on the next day is not a good idea. It is always better to keep the other in suspense about their success for some time. You don’t want to appear too easily pleased. Take some time to think about the date, or atleast appear to. Consider whether or not you can be happy with the person in question. It will always give a better impression if you have thought before reaching a decision. It will also be more flattering for the other person. If you call up too soon, you may be taken as a clingy person who will eventually suffocate the other person in a relationship. Remember a relationship requires you to give time and space to your partner.

A little thing like when to call makes a large difference to your relationship. So weigh your decisions before you act because every little thing counts!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Feel fall in love to someone....?

Feel fall in love to someone....?

or likely someone love u ?
Check this out :


1. Person who love u will never give u a reason why he loves u. he only knows tat u are in his eyes

2. If u already have a bf, he will not care. For him u are still happy and u are still his dream

3. Person who love u will accept u whatever u are, in his eyes u are still the most beautiful eventhough u feel urs body is over weight or obese.

4. The person who loves u always want to know what are u doing for a whole day, he want to know what are your activities

5. The person who loves u will send u a sms such as, good morning, good night, happy sunday, eventhough u will not reply his messages

6. If u celebrate ur birthday, and u didn’t invite him, he will send u a message or say happy birthday to u.

7. The person who loves u will remember every single moment that he has done with u, eventhough u have already forgotten for every detail of that moment, because that moment is the most precious to him.

8. The person who loves u will remember every single word u said and maybe the word u also forgot ever said it.

9. The person who loves u will learn to like ur favourite songs and even maybe borrow ur cds/cassetes, because he want to know what u like.

10. If last time u met, u was under the illness, he will send u a sms a few days later to ask how are u. Because he care about u.

11. If u tell him, u will have a test, he will ask u when the test is and when the day of ur test comes he will send u a sms "Good Luck" to encourage u.

12. The person who loves u will give his things that u will think its usual for u but for him, that is the most precious.

13. The person who loves u will silence for a while when he is talking with u by a phone, because that time he feel nervous, because u are "shaking his world" now.

14. The person who loves u always want to be beside u and near u, and he want to spend his days only with u.

15. If someday u have to move to another town he will give u an advice to beware of ur new environment than can give u a bad impact.

16. The person who loves u will do more like a best friends than a lover.

17. The person who loves u will do something stupid like call u a 100 times on a day, or wake u up in the night by sms or call u, because that moment he is thinking about u.

18. The person who loves u sometimes miss u and make something that annoy u or make u feel crazy, and when u say u are feel annoyed, he will apologize and promise will not do it again.

19. If u ask him to teach u something, he will teach u with patience even though u are the dumbest people in the world.

20. If u see his HP and u will see Ur name are in the whole message in box. He still saves the message from u even though u send that messages since a month ago or a year.

21. And If u avoid him or reject him, he will realize and dissapear from ur life, even though it kills his heart.

22. If someday u miss him and wanna give him a chance, he will there, waiting for u because he never search another.

I hope I can get a chance my cutie-pie…………………

-- ALAGARAJAN --

You Have To Be Different

Hi , My Fans

  Are the wheels slowly turning in your head
and you're starting to get
WHAT this dating
game is all about? Good, because you will
get to know one of the most important topics
when dating girls in a while:

 
Think about this: You see a hot woman at a bar
and you ask her straight out of the blue "Excuse
me ... I'm sorry to bother you but I just wanted
to let you know that you have lovely eyes".

 
Do you think you'll get SOMEWHERE?

 
Probably NOT buddy. How come?

  First of all it isn't just nicey-nice, insecure and
doesn't create any attraction, it is fucking lame!
Look, she gets that line
(and many other variations
of it)
like what? 46 times a week? So you come
along and think to yourself "Wow dude, check out
those legs over there ... I'll go over and complement
her on something, maybe she'll like me".

  All she does though is
"Well thank you", smiles and
turns around again to talk to her girlfriends.

 
And you ... you got BUSTED!

  You just came off like all these other guys who say
the exact same stuff over and over again, such as:

 
- Hi, can I buy you a drink

  - Do you wanna dance?

  - Can I get your number?

  - Do you wanna have a drink sometime?

  - You have pretty eyes *drool over titties*


  You have to be
DIFFERENT. If you're not, then she'll
just say to herself "gosh, another one ..." and thinks
"You know, let's just be friends ok?".

  Yep that sucks but you deserve no better if you're
like every other
NICE-guy out there.

 
Do you know what women want then? C'mon,
quick and simple ... what do they want?


  Yes, they want a
"Real Man."

  The next question you'll ask of course is "so
WHAT describes a real man and
WHAT makes
him so darn different from the bunch?".

  But I'll help ya out a little. There are three basic
steps in this game if you start from scratch. Don't worry,
I figured everything out for ya but I want you to start
using those brain-cells as well for now, okay?

 
Good. Here are the three steps EVERY guy
HAS to accomplish to become good at this:


1. First, you will need to FIND OUT what women actually want

2. Second, you will need to BECOME what women want.
  This is just a process of honing and improving yourself,
  not a process of complete change.

3. And third, you will need to SHOW and DISPLAY to
  women that you are what they want. That's what you
  call "pick-up girls", "macking" and "getting it on baby!"

 
This is the road of the Playboy, Ladies-man and Real man.
If you just want to get a girlfriend or conquer hundreds of
women is up to you.

  But if you are and do what most guys out there do,
then you will get exactly the same: A kiss on the
cheek, a hug and a
"let's just be FRIENDS instead"

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Friday, March 6, 2009

Signs He's Flirting

How to Tell If a Guy is Flirting With You

1) He is all over you from the first moment he meets you, even before you've exchanged two words.

2)
He asks you very little about yourself and your life, preferring to flirt wildly instead.

3)
His banter is sexually charged and he pays you lots of exaggerated compliments.

4)
He is often very physical with you, touching you almost immediately.

5)
If you're out with friends, he tries to separate you from the group instead of joining it and getting to know the people you're with.

6)
He asks for your number as soon as he can, and may suggest that the two of you go to a late-night bar that same evening, where he will try to seduce you.

7)
He puts pressure on you to have sex with him the first time you go out.

-- ALAGARAJAN --