How to Get Your Crush (for Boys and Girls)

Do you have a crush? Here's what to do.

Smile and occasionally look at them from across the room, then look away. Repeat until they smile back or approach you. If the smile seems a bit full on, try glancing at them, then look away for a split second. If they are interested they will most likely still be looking at you. If so, you could try a smile or if you're daring, approach him or her.

Go up and introduce yourself to him or her. Guys/girls normally will turn on to you if you act friendly and flirt at a minimum, not if you full out lunge at them, which may freak them out. Be confident, not cocky! Just be yourself. People relax a lot better if the other person is relaxed as well. Don't press, keep the conversation small, you just met. Be calm, cool, and collected.

If you are not so sure that they like you, ask them to do something outside of school; possibly bring them to a park or with your friend and possibly his or hers as well. Then if things are going well ask if they want to go for a walk with you or something. Just you and them; nobody else.

If you feel that you're okay with it, tell them how you feel. Make sure they like you too; if not, things could get awkward.

Do your research about them, learn their favorite sport, hobby, etc. People are more attracted to those who are smart and those who take an interest in them. Read their Myspace or Facebook profile for interest if they have one.

Make sure to have gum or mints. No one likes bad breath.

Ask them out! They are usually hoping for you to do it (if you're a guy). Girls on the other hand might really want you, but they are sometimes a bit more nervous and don't want to seem "pushy & aggressive".

If they reject you, you can always have a clever comeback! Like if you go up to them and ask,"Do you like me?" and they say,"Yes, as a friend." then you could say back,"Good. Me too. I was just asking because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." and so on and so forth.

Maybe if things are going well and you and the boy or girl have been talking in school for a while, you can get their number!

Flirt with other boys/girls! If you really like them then flirt in front of them. This gives you the chance to see their reaction. If they laugh or smile they probably have no interest in you, but be careful they may be hiding their emotions.

1. Sometimes, it is a bad idea to tell all of your friends you like someone. The best of friends can go ahead and tell your crush without your permission.

2. Try new looks; a new haircut can do wonders to your confidence.

3. A friendly smile is your best weapon.

4. Try to make them laugh; humor is the best aphrodisiac.

5. Do not insult and pick fights when you are around him or her; petty malice is not attractive.

6. Do not hang all over your crush, he or she might think it is weird. Being too clingy is a turn off.

7. Do not try to annoy your crush, but don't shower him/her too much in compliments either. Balance is good.

8. Do not stalk your crush. For example, having pictures of him or her, and following your crush are common stalking behaviors.

9. If your crush already has feelings for another person, it is okay to still talk, unless they find it annoying. Wait for a more appropriate time.

10. If you think the person returns your feelings, casually say or hint your true feelings. Do not get emotional with a big confession. If your crush does not feel the same way as you do, then just smile and walk away.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Doomed from the Beginning?

Doomed from the Start?

When you first start dating a man or woman who you have been attracted to, you might be all starry-eyed and dreamy. But as time goes by you realise the relationship was a mistake and then wish you had seen the problems right from the start. While there is no way of knowing in an instant, it is possible to gauge whether a relationship is over even before it has begun, if only you look for the signs. What are those signs?

Oh! My problems

When you first start dating, there are several things that you can talk about; what the person does, their likes and dislikes, etc. However, if your date can only talk about their unending problems and how hopeless a place the world is, please back off. For, you are probably heading for a relationship that will end up being bitter.

Stood you up

If there is a genuine reason, he or she deserves a second chance. But if it is a silly reason and they did not even bother to inform you, walk away now. Don't wait for a few more stand-ups before realising this person is only full of excuses and can't respect someone enough to at least inform them that he or she won't show up.

Secrets

When two people get together and the relationship is new, there is no reason that one would want to keep it a secret, unless they are unsure about it. This is a sign that your man or woman is not sure about you and wants to buy time before making the relationship 'official.' But if they are being evasive, watch out, maybe there is a third party involved.

Friends disapprove

Your friends probably know you better than anyone else. If they are apprehensive about the new man or woman in your life, listen to them. Hopefully your friends are the kind of people who look out for you. If your closest friend, who you trust and will only have your best interests at heart warns you - don't be blinded by love; listen to him or her.

Lying

A sure sign that your relationship isn't going to get very far is when there are lies being said right from the beginning. If you find out that your new partner has lied to you about something, remember that he or she probably has the capacity to tell bigger lies later on as well. A relationship cannot survive without trust, and only a fool would trust a liar. So be aware of how much your partner is willing to bend the truth. When a relationship goes wrong it can cause a lot of hurt and anger. Of course, it is hard to be guarded when you're in love, but you can at least try to avoid heart break by reading the signs.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Seduction Guide

Your six-point seduction guide

1) Reach into his pocket for the keys: Well, more than just the keys. The lesson is: Never underestimate the power of an unexpected touch. Just by stimulating your partner's nerve endings when they're not prepared for it, you create a positive physical connection that leaves your lover wanting more.

2) Keep him out of the loop: Remember, the less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in you. So to hook him in, when you're chatting, give him the conclusion of the conversation first. For instance, "I got the job," and then stop and wait. You've gotten his attention, now let them draw out of the details.

3) Make small changes for big results: The trick to activate desire is to depart from your everyday look. Maybe take a break from your trousers and move around in an evening gown.

4) Compliment your lover the right way: There's a trick to buttering up your lover right. Make the compliment obscure and exclusive and it will sound more genuine. He may dismiss your flattery with a wave of the hand, but deep down, he'll be loving every second of it.

5) Give your lover a sensory flashback: Think about when you first fell for your partner. What reminds you both of that time. Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush. Your lover will experience something that they associate with falling in love with you; those intense, sensual memories will trigger a positive a physical reaction and generate instant longing.

6) Check out competition: Love works in bizzare ways. If you want to renew your partner's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of someone attractive. It adds a bit of jealousy and a lot of attention.

To smoke your lover's interest, trail someone with your gaze or flash a flirty smile at one of his friends when you know you're being watched. And it never hurts to make an extra bit of effort with your looks when you know you'll be in a situation where others will admire you. Just the possibility of others eyeing you all night will definitely make them appreciate that they're lucky to have you.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Make A Call After Your First Date

When You Are Supposed To Make A Call After Your First Date

Though it may seem like trivia, “when to call after the first date?” is an important question. Calling too soon may make you appear to be the clingy sort. On the other hand, waiting too long before you make a call may cast you in the light of a person who doesn’t care much.

Once the date is over, the first impression that you have made must be strengthened (if the first impression was good, of course). If due to some unfortunate circumstance, you did not really create an impression you wanted to, you could call in order to rectify your mistakes.

What does one talk about after a date? If the date went well, that is, if you both enjoyed and you believe that things could work out between you, then you should ideally have no trouble looking for things to talk about. Tell the other how you had such a good time with them. Ask them whether they enjoyed. Then you could discuss about meeting up again.

The best time to call is 3-4 days after your first date. That gives the other person time to think and examine all the positives and negatives of the date. You may be a little uncomfortable giving the other time to rethink of all the follies you may have made, but it is for the best. A relationship can never work if either partner remains ignorant about the other’s drawbacks. Waiting for a few days also makes the other a little anxious about why you have not called so far or whether they made some mistake during the date. This makes them all the more eager to please when you do call up. Also, during this time, your date might just call you up and then you will know for sure that they did have a good time!

Calling immediately after a date or even on the next day is not a good idea. It is always better to keep the other in suspense about their success for some time. You don’t want to appear too easily pleased. Take some time to think about the date, or atleast appear to. Consider whether or not you can be happy with the person in question. It will always give a better impression if you have thought before reaching a decision. It will also be more flattering for the other person. If you call up too soon, you may be taken as a clingy person who will eventually suffocate the other person in a relationship. Remember a relationship requires you to give time and space to your partner.

A little thing like when to call makes a large difference to your relationship. So weigh your decisions before you act because every little thing counts!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Feel fall in love to someone....?

Feel fall in love to someone....?

or likely someone love u ?
Check this out :

1. Person who love u will never give u a reason why he loves u. he only knows tat u are in his eyes

2. If u already have a bf, he will not care. For him u are still happy and u are still his dream

3. Person who love u will accept u whatever u are, in his eyes u are still the most beautiful eventhough u feel urs body is over weight or obese.

4. The person who loves u always want to know what are u doing for a whole day, he want to know what are your activities

5. The person who loves u will send u a sms such as, good morning, good night, happy sunday, eventhough u will not reply his messages

6. If u celebrate ur birthday, and u didn’t invite him, he will send u a message or say happy birthday to u.

7. The person who loves u will remember every single moment that he has done with u, eventhough u have already forgotten for every detail of that moment, because that moment is the most precious to him.

8. The person who loves u will remember every single word u said and maybe the word u also forgot ever said it.

9. The person who loves u will learn to like ur favourite songs and even maybe borrow ur cds/cassetes, because he want to know what u like.

10. If last time u met, u was under the illness, he will send u a sms a few days later to ask how are u. Because he care about u.

11. If u tell him, u will have a test, he will ask u when the test is and when the day of ur test comes he will send u a sms "Good Luck" to encourage u.

12. The person who loves u will give his things that u will think its usual for u but for him, that is the most precious.

13. The person who loves u will silence for a while when he is talking with u by a phone, because that time he feel nervous, because u are "shaking his world" now.

14. The person who loves u always want to be beside u and near u, and he want to spend his days only with u.

15. If someday u have to move to another town he will give u an advice to beware of ur new environment than can give u a bad impact.

16. The person who loves u will do more like a best friends than a lover.

17. The person who loves u will do something stupid like call u a 100 times on a day, or wake u up in the night by sms or call u, because that moment he is thinking about u.

18. The person who loves u sometimes miss u and make something that annoy u or make u feel crazy, and when u say u are feel annoyed, he will apologize and promise will not do it again.

19. If u ask him to teach u something, he will teach u with patience even though u are the dumbest people in the world.

20. If u see his HP and u will see Ur name are in the whole message in box. He still saves the message from u even though u send that messages since a month ago or a year.

21. And If u avoid him or reject him, he will realize and dissapear from ur life, even though it kills his heart.

22. If someday u miss him and wanna give him a chance, he will there, waiting for u because he never search another.

I hope I can get a chance my cutie-pie…………………

-- ALAGARAJAN --

You Have To Be Different

Hi , My Fans

  Are the wheels slowly turning in your head
and you're starting to get WHAT this dating
game is all about? Good, because you will
get to know one of the most important topics
when dating girls in a while:

  Think about this: You see a hot woman at a bar
and you ask her straight out of the blue "Excuse
me ... I'm sorry to bother you but I just wanted
to let you know that you have lovely eyes".

  Do you think you'll get SOMEWHERE?

  Probably NOT buddy. How come?

  First of all it isn't just nicey-nice, insecure and
doesn't create any attraction, it is fucking lame!
Look, she gets that line (and many other variations
of it) like what? 46 times a week? So you come
along and think to yourself "Wow dude, check out
those legs over there ... I'll go over and complement
her on something, maybe she'll like me".

  All she does though is "Well thank you", smiles and
turns around again to talk to her girlfriends.

  And you ... you got BUSTED!

  You just came off like all these other guys who say
the exact same stuff over and over again, such as:

  - Hi, can I buy you a drink

  - Do you wanna dance?

  - Can I get your number?

  - Do you wanna have a drink sometime?

  - You have pretty eyes *drool over titties*

  You have to be DIFFERENT. If you're not, then she'll
just say to herself "gosh, another one ..." and thinks
"You know, let's just be friends ok?".

  Yep that sucks but you deserve no better if you're
like every other NICE-guy out there.

  Do you know what women want then? C'mon,
quick and simple ... what do they want?

  Yes, they want a "Real Man."

  The next question you'll ask of course is "so
WHAT describes a real man and WHAT makes
him so darn different from the bunch?".

  But I'll help ya out a little. There are three basic
steps in this game if you start from scratch. Don't worry,
I figured everything out for ya but I want you to start
using those brain-cells as well for now, okay?

  Good. Here are the three steps EVERY guy
HAS to accomplish to become good at this:

1. First, you will need to FIND OUT what women actually want

2. Second, you will need to BECOME what women want.
  This is just a process of honing and improving yourself,
  not a process of complete change.

3. And third, you will need to SHOW and DISPLAY to
  women that you are what they want. That's what you
  call "pick-up girls", "macking" and "getting it on baby!"

  This is the road of the Playboy, Ladies-man and Real man.
If you just want to get a girlfriend or conquer hundreds of
women is up to you.

  But if you are and do what most guys out there do,
then you will get exactly the same: A kiss on the
cheek, a hug and a "let's just be FRIENDS instead"

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Signs He's Flirting

How to Tell If a Guy is Flirting With You

1) He is all over you from the first moment he meets you, even before you've exchanged two words.

2) He asks you very little about yourself and your life, preferring to flirt wildly instead.

3) His banter is sexually charged and he pays you lots of exaggerated compliments.

4) He is often very physical with you, touching you almost immediately.

5) If you're out with friends, he tries to separate you from the group instead of joining it and getting to know the people you're with.

6) He asks for your number as soon as he can, and may suggest that the two of you go to a late-night bar that same evening, where he will try to seduce you.

7) He puts pressure on you to have sex with him the first time you go out.

-- ALAGARAJAN --