How to Make Every Day Mother's Day...

Convincing people that moms deserve a break every day is harder than you might think. Although people are quick to honor their mothers with trinkets and a day without laundry once a year, they are often unaware of the enormous sacrifices that mothers make over the span of a lifetime.

1. Thank her every day. Many mothers feel that the little things they do that make life easier for everyone else goes unnoticed. Saying thank you to her for the little things will make her feel appreciated.


2. Help her. Every mother, especially a mother of small children, is sleep deprived. Despite this fact, she has to stay busy from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep just to do all of the things that have to be done for her family to survive. Helping her out by doing some things for her every day will make her think that every day is Mother's Day.


3. Allow her to relax. Moms are busy and usually have very little down time to relax. Find ways to encourage her to relax. For example, invite her to sit down a watch a movie with the family.


4. Do something unexpected. Think of something you think she would enjoy. You can take her out to dinner or take her to have a manicure or massage. A child can clean up his room without being told.


5. Hire a maid to come once a week or more often to do the major cleaning tasks take the stress of having to do those tasks off of Mom. You can have the maid come for a just a couple of hours or have her stay all day. Either way, her services will make Mom feel appreciated.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Make a Mom Happy

1. Pay attention. No mom in the history of momkind has ever been happy about having to repeat herself. Listen to her the first time and pay attention. Make an effort to really do this and watch the happy happen.


2. Do your share of the housework without being asked or reminded. Make your bed, pick up after yourself, cook a meal, swish the toilet, wash your own dishes, etc. Don’t wait for her to remind you. Whatever you do, don’t wait for her to do it for you.


3. Buy her a present. Sure, it’s the thought that counts, but every mom has a collection of homemade candy dishes and cards. Spend a couple of dollars out of your own money on something she will really enjoy and watch her eyes light up. Sometimes, the effort can mean even more than the thought.


4. Give her a real day off. Make it a full day and don’t cop out by choosing Mother’s Day or her birthday. Pick a random day and handle as many of the things she normally does as possible. Do the laundry, grab the mail, pick up groceries, make dinner and pick up younger kids at school.


5. Be nice. Have a good attitude and be project good cheer throughout the day. Be polite and resist the urge to argue. A day without sarcasm or arguments can make even the most hardened mom happy.


6. Take her out. Take her to breakfast and her favorite bookstore. Go bead or yarn shopping if that’s her thing or take her to the racetrack if that’s what she would prefer. Whatever you do, make sure it is something she wants to do.


7. Talk with her. Ask her about her day and give her all the time she needs to answer. Let her go into detail or run off on tangents. People do a lot of talking to and at moms, but not nearly as much talking with them.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Why Do Jerks Get All The Women

I got a very interesting

lesson for you today. It will be one of the MOST crucial because now, we are facing our first challenge: determining what basket women will throw you into. Let's get into it:

Can you remember the last time you saw a gorgeous young woman walking down the street but some ugly-mug has HIS arm around her?

Maybe in high-school, at college or at work this incident has happened to you more than on one occasion.

You had your eye on this girl you thought was off the scalein the looks department and you COULDN'T wait to ask her out or to get her number get her number but then ... you realized she had a boyfriend happens to be a complete jerk!

He treates her like garbage and yes, she even tells YOU about her relationship problems with him.

Does that ring a bell?

I bet half of my lunch that you were wondering why she was telling you all about her problems and NEVER wanted more than just to be friends.

I know that all this time you were trying to figure out the big WHY's and even said to yourself "Hmm, that is weird. I would treat her just like she DESERVES to be treated - like a princess. Why the hell does she not go out with me but with this jerk who treats her like sh*t instead?"

You really wanna know WHY you never got any?

Think about it. First of all, you ARE her girlfriend. That's why she's telling you about all her problems and shares stories about guys with you.

Secondly, you AREN'T seeing clearly whats really going on here: Why do you think she is going out with such a jerk in the first place? Why is she fucking him and not you?

Oh, might it be because ... he is hot? Yep he is! She is feeling that emotion that tells her "wow, this guy is hot!" when she's around him. In other words: she is ATTRACTED to him!

He makes her feel this magical word called ATTRACTION. You on the other hand were nothing more than being "nice" and "polite".

You see, women aren't attracted to nice guys because they are BORING. Jerks are the complete opposite of a clingy, whiney nice guy, they're FUN and challenging!

While you would buy her dinner, invite her to the movies and act all "you look very nice tonight" he just goes like "C'mere baby. I don't want you to wearing that top when I'm not around capiche? Ok good, gimme a kiss".

He does what HE wants, demands, plays by his ownrules and is pretty arrogant as well.

But how come women are attracted to bad boys so much more than they are to nice guys that would treat them so much better?

Tomorrow I will talk more about bad boys while you might

play it nice and be all polite but he is bad, he is mean, he is

abusive and he is an asshole. BUT ... he is getting all the girls while the wusses are staring blank at the wall alone.

It's time to fix this once and for all.

I DON'T want you to become a jerk or mean bastard whendealing with women, but it is better to be bad than good!Being nice doesn't get you anywhere.You'll discover all the time-tested tips, tricks and techniquesabout ATTRACTING and dating women more easily and quickly

than you've ever thought possible.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Get Your Crush (for Boys and Girls)

Do you have a crush? Here's what to do.

Smile and occasionally look at them from across the room, then look away. Repeat until they smile back or approach you. If the smile seems a bit full on, try glancing at them, then look away for a split second. If they are interested they will most likely still be looking at you. If so, you could try a smile or if you're daring, approach him or her.

Go up and introduce yourself to him or her. Guys/girls normally will turn on to you if you act friendly and flirt at a minimum, not if you full out lunge at them, which may freak them out. Be confident, not cocky! Just be yourself. People relax a lot better if the other person is relaxed as well. Don't press, keep the conversation small, you just met. Be calm, cool, and collected.

If you are not so sure that they like you, ask them to do something outside of school; possibly bring them to a park or with your friend and possibly his or hers as well. Then if things are going well ask if they want to go for a walk with you or something. Just you and them; nobody else.

If you feel that you're okay with it, tell them how you feel. Make sure they like you too; if not, things could get awkward.

Do your research about them, learn their favorite sport, hobby, etc. People are more attracted to those who are smart and those who take an interest in them. Read their Myspace or Facebook profile for interest if they have one.

Make sure to have gum or mints. No one likes bad breath.

Ask them out! They are usually hoping for you to do it (if you're a guy). Girls on the other hand might really want you, but they are sometimes a bit more nervous and don't want to seem "pushy & aggressive".

If they reject you, you can always have a clever comeback! Like if you go up to them and ask,"Do you like me?" and they say,"Yes, as a friend." then you could say back,"Good. Me too. I was just asking because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." and so on and so forth.

Maybe if things are going well and you and the boy or girl have been talking in school for a while, you can get their number!

Flirt with other boys/girls! If you really like them then flirt in front of them. This gives you the chance to see their reaction. If they laugh or smile they probably have no interest in you, but be careful they may be hiding their emotions.

1. Sometimes, it is a bad idea to tell all of your friends you like someone. The best of friends can go ahead and tell your crush without your permission.

2. Try new looks; a new haircut can do wonders to your confidence.

3. A friendly smile is your best weapon.

4. Try to make them laugh; humor is the best aphrodisiac.

5. Do not insult and pick fights when you are around him or her; petty malice is not attractive.

6. Do not hang all over your crush, he or she might think it is weird. Being too clingy is a turn off.

7. Do not try to annoy your crush, but don't shower him/her too much in compliments either. Balance is good.

8. Do not stalk your crush. For example, having pictures of him or her, and following your crush are common stalking behaviors.

9. If your crush already has feelings for another person, it is okay to still talk, unless they find it annoying. Wait for a more appropriate time.

10. If you think the person returns your feelings, casually say or hint your true feelings. Do not get emotional with a big confession. If your crush does not feel the same way as you do, then just smile and walk away.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Doomed from the Beginning?

Doomed from the Start?

When you first start dating a man or woman who you have been attracted to, you might be all starry-eyed and dreamy. But as time goes by you realise the relationship was a mistake and then wish you had seen the problems right from the start. While there is no way of knowing in an instant, it is possible to gauge whether a relationship is over even before it has begun, if only you look for the signs. What are those signs?

Oh! My problems

When you first start dating, there are several things that you can talk about; what the person does, their likes and dislikes, etc. However, if your date can only talk about their unending problems and how hopeless a place the world is, please back off. For, you are probably heading for a relationship that will end up being bitter.

Stood you up

If there is a genuine reason, he or she deserves a second chance. But if it is a silly reason and they did not even bother to inform you, walk away now. Don't wait for a few more stand-ups before realising this person is only full of excuses and can't respect someone enough to at least inform them that he or she won't show up.

Secrets

When two people get together and the relationship is new, there is no reason that one would want to keep it a secret, unless they are unsure about it. This is a sign that your man or woman is not sure about you and wants to buy time before making the relationship 'official.' But if they are being evasive, watch out, maybe there is a third party involved.

Friends disapprove

Your friends probably know you better than anyone else. If they are apprehensive about the new man or woman in your life, listen to them. Hopefully your friends are the kind of people who look out for you. If your closest friend, who you trust and will only have your best interests at heart warns you - don't be blinded by love; listen to him or her.

Lying

A sure sign that your relationship isn't going to get very far is when there are lies being said right from the beginning. If you find out that your new partner has lied to you about something, remember that he or she probably has the capacity to tell bigger lies later on as well. A relationship cannot survive without trust, and only a fool would trust a liar. So be aware of how much your partner is willing to bend the truth. When a relationship goes wrong it can cause a lot of hurt and anger. Of course, it is hard to be guarded when you're in love, but you can at least try to avoid heart break by reading the signs.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Seduction Guide

Your six-point seduction guide

1) Reach into his pocket for the keys: Well, more than just the keys. The lesson is: Never underestimate the power of an unexpected touch. Just by stimulating your partner's nerve endings when they're not prepared for it, you create a positive physical connection that leaves your lover wanting more.

2) Keep him out of the loop: Remember, the less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in you. So to hook him in, when you're chatting, give him the conclusion of the conversation first. For instance, "I got the job," and then stop and wait. You've gotten his attention, now let them draw out of the details.

3) Make small changes for big results: The trick to activate desire is to depart from your everyday look. Maybe take a break from your trousers and move around in an evening gown.

4) Compliment your lover the right way: There's a trick to buttering up your lover right. Make the compliment obscure and exclusive and it will sound more genuine. He may dismiss your flattery with a wave of the hand, but deep down, he'll be loving every second of it.

5) Give your lover a sensory flashback: Think about when you first fell for your partner. What reminds you both of that time. Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush. Your lover will experience something that they associate with falling in love with you; those intense, sensual memories will trigger a positive a physical reaction and generate instant longing.

6) Check out competition: Love works in bizzare ways. If you want to renew your partner's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of someone attractive. It adds a bit of jealousy and a lot of attention.

To smoke your lover's interest, trail someone with your gaze or flash a flirty smile at one of his friends when you know you're being watched. And it never hurts to make an extra bit of effort with your looks when you know you'll be in a situation where others will admire you. Just the possibility of others eyeing you all night will definitely make them appreciate that they're lucky to have you.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Make A Call After Your First Date

When You Are Supposed To Make A Call After Your First Date

Though it may seem like trivia, “when to call after the first date?” is an important question. Calling too soon may make you appear to be the clingy sort. On the other hand, waiting too long before you make a call may cast you in the light of a person who doesn’t care much.

Once the date is over, the first impression that you have made must be strengthened (if the first impression was good, of course). If due to some unfortunate circumstance, you did not really create an impression you wanted to, you could call in order to rectify your mistakes.

What does one talk about after a date? If the date went well, that is, if you both enjoyed and you believe that things could work out between you, then you should ideally have no trouble looking for things to talk about. Tell the other how you had such a good time with them. Ask them whether they enjoyed. Then you could discuss about meeting up again.

The best time to call is 3-4 days after your first date. That gives the other person time to think and examine all the positives and negatives of the date. You may be a little uncomfortable giving the other time to rethink of all the follies you may have made, but it is for the best. A relationship can never work if either partner remains ignorant about the other’s drawbacks. Waiting for a few days also makes the other a little anxious about why you have not called so far or whether they made some mistake during the date. This makes them all the more eager to please when you do call up. Also, during this time, your date might just call you up and then you will know for sure that they did have a good time!

Calling immediately after a date or even on the next day is not a good idea. It is always better to keep the other in suspense about their success for some time. You don’t want to appear too easily pleased. Take some time to think about the date, or atleast appear to. Consider whether or not you can be happy with the person in question. It will always give a better impression if you have thought before reaching a decision. It will also be more flattering for the other person. If you call up too soon, you may be taken as a clingy person who will eventually suffocate the other person in a relationship. Remember a relationship requires you to give time and space to your partner.

A little thing like when to call makes a large difference to your relationship. So weigh your decisions before you act because every little thing counts!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Feel fall in love to someone....?

Feel fall in love to someone....?

or likely someone love u ?
Check this out :

1. Person who love u will never give u a reason why he loves u. he only knows tat u are in his eyes

2. If u already have a bf, he will not care. For him u are still happy and u are still his dream

3. Person who love u will accept u whatever u are, in his eyes u are still the most beautiful eventhough u feel urs body is over weight or obese.

4. The person who loves u always want to know what are u doing for a whole day, he want to know what are your activities

5. The person who loves u will send u a sms such as, good morning, good night, happy sunday, eventhough u will not reply his messages

6. If u celebrate ur birthday, and u didn’t invite him, he will send u a message or say happy birthday to u.

7. The person who loves u will remember every single moment that he has done with u, eventhough u have already forgotten for every detail of that moment, because that moment is the most precious to him.

8. The person who loves u will remember every single word u said and maybe the word u also forgot ever said it.

9. The person who loves u will learn to like ur favourite songs and even maybe borrow ur cds/cassetes, because he want to know what u like.

10. If last time u met, u was under the illness, he will send u a sms a few days later to ask how are u. Because he care about u.

11. If u tell him, u will have a test, he will ask u when the test is and when the day of ur test comes he will send u a sms "Good Luck" to encourage u.

12. The person who loves u will give his things that u will think its usual for u but for him, that is the most precious.

13. The person who loves u will silence for a while when he is talking with u by a phone, because that time he feel nervous, because u are "shaking his world" now.

14. The person who loves u always want to be beside u and near u, and he want to spend his days only with u.

15. If someday u have to move to another town he will give u an advice to beware of ur new environment than can give u a bad impact.

16. The person who loves u will do more like a best friends than a lover.

17. The person who loves u will do something stupid like call u a 100 times on a day, or wake u up in the night by sms or call u, because that moment he is thinking about u.

18. The person who loves u sometimes miss u and make something that annoy u or make u feel crazy, and when u say u are feel annoyed, he will apologize and promise will not do it again.

19. If u ask him to teach u something, he will teach u with patience even though u are the dumbest people in the world.

20. If u see his HP and u will see Ur name are in the whole message in box. He still saves the message from u even though u send that messages since a month ago or a year.

21. And If u avoid him or reject him, he will realize and dissapear from ur life, even though it kills his heart.

22. If someday u miss him and wanna give him a chance, he will there, waiting for u because he never search another.

I hope I can get a chance my cutie-pie…………………

-- ALAGARAJAN --

You Have To Be Different

Hi , My Fans

  Are the wheels slowly turning in your head
and you're starting to get WHAT this dating
game is all about? Good, because you will
get to know one of the most important topics
when dating girls in a while:

  Think about this: You see a hot woman at a bar
and you ask her straight out of the blue "Excuse
me ... I'm sorry to bother you but I just wanted
to let you know that you have lovely eyes".

  Do you think you'll get SOMEWHERE?

  Probably NOT buddy. How come?

  First of all it isn't just nicey-nice, insecure and
doesn't create any attraction, it is fucking lame!
Look, she gets that line (and many other variations
of it) like what? 46 times a week? So you come
along and think to yourself "Wow dude, check out
those legs over there ... I'll go over and complement
her on something, maybe she'll like me".

  All she does though is "Well thank you", smiles and
turns around again to talk to her girlfriends.

  And you ... you got BUSTED!

  You just came off like all these other guys who say
the exact same stuff over and over again, such as:

  - Hi, can I buy you a drink

  - Do you wanna dance?

  - Can I get your number?

  - Do you wanna have a drink sometime?

  - You have pretty eyes *drool over titties*

  You have to be DIFFERENT. If you're not, then she'll
just say to herself "gosh, another one ..." and thinks
"You know, let's just be friends ok?".

  Yep that sucks but you deserve no better if you're
like every other NICE-guy out there.

  Do you know what women want then? C'mon,
quick and simple ... what do they want?

  Yes, they want a "Real Man."

  The next question you'll ask of course is "so
WHAT describes a real man and WHAT makes
him so darn different from the bunch?".

  But I'll help ya out a little. There are three basic
steps in this game if you start from scratch. Don't worry,
I figured everything out for ya but I want you to start
using those brain-cells as well for now, okay?

  Good. Here are the three steps EVERY guy
HAS to accomplish to become good at this:

1. First, you will need to FIND OUT what women actually want

2. Second, you will need to BECOME what women want.
  This is just a process of honing and improving yourself,
  not a process of complete change.

3. And third, you will need to SHOW and DISPLAY to
  women that you are what they want. That's what you
  call "pick-up girls", "macking" and "getting it on baby!"

  This is the road of the Playboy, Ladies-man and Real man.
If you just want to get a girlfriend or conquer hundreds of
women is up to you.

  But if you are and do what most guys out there do,
then you will get exactly the same: A kiss on the
cheek, a hug and a "let's just be FRIENDS instead"

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Signs He's Flirting

How to Tell If a Guy is Flirting With You

1) He is all over you from the first moment he meets you, even before you've exchanged two words.

2) He asks you very little about yourself and your life, preferring to flirt wildly instead.

3) His banter is sexually charged and he pays you lots of exaggerated compliments.

4) He is often very physical with you, touching you almost immediately.

5) If you're out with friends, he tries to separate you from the group instead of joining it and getting to know the people you're with.

6) He asks for your number as soon as he can, and may suggest that the two of you go to a late-night bar that same evening, where he will try to seduce you.

7) He puts pressure on you to have sex with him the first time you go out.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

February 14

Today is the day ,where many people throughout the world celebrating happy (Saint) Valentine's Day. Though the festival commemorates the martyrdom of a Christian saint called St Valentine, the festival as it is celebrated today has little religious significance.Valentine's Day is a festival that cherishes love and romance..most probably all the lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, flowers, and Valentine's gifts.

Going on a date with one's Valentine is another popular tradition of Valentine's Day festival. Candle light dinners or evening together in a park are an all-time favorite dating idea in present times.On February 14, the spirit of love pervades the very atmosphere. One can find couples thronging parks, restaurants, malls and multiplexes holding hands and expressing love for each other.

•  For Couple

For some lovers the day begins by whispering ‘I love you' in the ears of beloved.Though one may say that love is to be celebrated everyday and not just one, lovers cherish the fact that there is exclusively a festival that celebrates love and lovers and provides opportunity to pamper their beloved with love.

• For Single

Many single men and women go to the extent of calling Valentine's Day a ‘Singles Awareness Day'. This is because they feel that the day strongly reminds them of their unattached status and not having someone to spend the day in romantic and much popularized manner. Initials of the day ‘S-A-D' reflect their status of feeling depressed and unloved.

Pamper yourself
Buy yourself cute Valentine's Day gifts which could be flowers, a cute teddy or a dress you have been planning to buy since long. Singles may also indulge themselves by going in for spa or head to toe beauty treatment. Indulging in books, CDs, and gourmet meals can be a good way of enjoying the day for some.

Freak out with friends
Plan out a dinner or movie with best friends. You may also throw a “singles party” or “Un-Valentine's Day Party” at your home and have a blast. You will know that life is fun in the company of loving friends.

Acts of Service
Singles can spend Valentine's Day in the meaningful way by spending time with the needy and downtrodden. You may visit an orphanage or old age home and spend time with the inmates there who are always in need of love and affection. Visiting hospitals and giving roses to sick can also be a touching way of experiencing bliss on Valentine's Day. 

Express Gratitude for friends and dear ones
Instead of feeling depressed and ashamed for not having a significant other to spend the day, singles can spend Valentine's Day in a constructive manner by expressing love and affection for people around them. One can thank and greet Valentine's Day to one's parents, friends, colleagues, neighbors or anyone dear. 

Think Positive
Singles can make the most of Valentine's Day by thinking positive and fighting away Valentine's Day blues. One should not spend the day sulking for not having a spouse or beloved to spend the day in a happy manner. 

Focus on Relationship Plan
Singles can focus on their relationship plan on Valentine's Day and prepare themselves for healthy and lasting relationships. One can take help of dating and matrimonial sites to find a partner. Also make a list of what you can do to improve your personality. It could be developing a more healthy and positive approach towards life or working towards one's diet, health and physical appearance. Take steps you think are vital to improve your chances for relationship. Make some resolutions for yourself and stick to them.

•  Beyond Lovers

Some people also like to celebrate Valentine's Day in a constructive manner by performing acts of charity. One can visit orphanage, old age home and hospitals and spend time with those who crave for attention and affection.

Meaning of Different Colors of Roses

Rose of different colors symbolizes different emotions and feelings. One therefore needs to be careful while presenting a rose to loved one:

Red Roses - Love and passion 
White Roses - True love, purity of the mind and reverence
Yellow Roses - Friendship, celebration and joy 
Pink Roses - Friendship or Sweetheart, admiration
Peach Roses - Desire and excitement or appreciation 
Lilac Roses - Love at first sight and enchantment
Coral Roses - Desire
Orange Roses - Enthusiasm and desire
Black Roses - Farewell or "It's Over"
Bouquet of Red and Yellow Roses: Happiness and celebrations 
Bouquet of Red and White Roses: Bonding and harmony 
Bouquet of Yellow and Orange Roses: Passion

Valentine's Day Poem

To touch your beloved's heart memorize a cute Valentine Day Poetry and say it while holding hands and looking deep into his/her eyes.

Be my Valentine

I think of you often...I do,
From morning 'til evening I do,
When memories bring laughter
Or moments bring pain,
There is faithfulness, too, once again.

And time always shows me
And God always shows me
Both sunshine and rain,
How, we gain yearly
From the love we're share dearly.

So, my dear, my sweet bubbaloo,
Remember our love, dulce bubbaloo,
For we've come so far and there's so much to come
And I have love to yet give
For the life we will live...together.

Make little of what makes you cry,
Be sure that what makes you cry
Has greater desire and a more certain will
To pray for His help from above
and restore the feelings of love.

So let's stir up our passion today,
Let memories give way today,
To the now and the future
For the joys and hopes and for all
The times my heart hears you call.

I'm so glad,
I'm so glad,
I love you
You love me fine
Be my Valentine.

You've Touched My Heart

You've given me a reason
For smiling once again,
You've filled my life with peaceful dreams
and you've become my closest friend.

You've shared your heartfelt secrets
And your trust you've given me,
You showed me how to feel again
To laugh, and love, and see.

If life should end tomorrow
And from this world I should part,
I shall be forever young
For you have touched my heart

Valentine's Day Songs

The Power of Love - Celine Dion

The whispers in the morning
Of lovers sleeping tight
Are rolling like thunder now
As I look in your eyes

I hold on to your body
And feel each move you make
Your voice is warm and tender
A love that I could not forsake

(Chorus - 1)
'Cause I am your lady
And you are my man
Whenever you reach for me
I'll do all that I can

Lost is how I'm feeling lying in your arms
When the world outside's too
Much to take
That all ends when I'm with you

Even though there may be times
It seems I'm far away
Never wonder where I am
'Cause I am always by your side

(Chorus - 1)

(Chorus - 2)
We're heading for something
Somewhere I've never been
Sometimes I am frightened
But I'm ready to learn
Of the power of love

The sound of your heart beating
Made it clear
Suddenly the feeling that I can't go on
Is light years away

(Chorus - 1)

(Chorus - 2)

Valentine's Day Dating

Going for a date with sweetheart is the most popular way of celebrating Valentine's Day festival. Those in love start thinking about unique Valentine's Day dating ideas days in advance to ensure a romantic and memorable time with their beloved. However, those without a date start registering themselves for various online and offline dating services so that they do not miss out on the fun the couples enjoy on a Valentine's Day.

Going for Adventure Sports
If you and your partner enjoy adventure sports, plan out a session on Valentine's Day !! Go for ice -skating, river-rafting, para sailing or any other activity that is possible in your vicinity and have a great time.

Cooking Together
You must have gone to restaurants many times, but this Valentine's Day try cooking a meal with your beloved. It would be great fun! Get a recipe book in case you need some tips and lay out the table in an elaborate manner to add joy to the celebrations. 

Take a Tour of Your City
On Valentine's Day you may plan a tour of your city with your beloved. You may show each other your favorite spots or places where you grew up like school, college or office. This would help you get to know each other better and will therefore strengthen your relationship. Alternatively, you may visit museums, art galleries, or other spots you don't usually visit for lack of time or opportunity. This way you can create beautiful memories together. 

Go for Picnics
A great Valentine's Day dating idea would be to go for picnic at your favorite spot. Plan out activities you can enjoy in that spot. Places with a river and boating facility are an ideal picnic spot for romantic dates. 

Movie and Candle Light Dinner
This is an ideal and an all time favorites Valentine's Day dating idea amongst lovers. You may also go for concerts or theatre for a change. Read out a romantic poetry holding your lover's hand for greater and more bewitching impact.

List of Valentine's Day Games:

Paper Dance
Valentine can be made special and fun-filled by dancing with your partner on a piece of paper. Play the game of Paper Dance and make it a most interesting Valentine's Day celebration.

How to Play: 
1. The dancing couple has to dance on a paper and every 2 minutes the paper is folded half and the couple has to dance on that piece of paper only.
2. If one of the partners or both slip or dance outside the paper then the couple is out of the competition. The couple that dances till the end of the game on that small paper wins the game. 
3. Isn't it a romantic idea of dancing so close to your partner and at the same time win the competition? Well, it's like you have your cake and eat it too. 

Know Your Mate
"Know Your Mate" is a Valentine's Day game for the couples. It will help you know how well you understand your partner. 

How to Play: 
1. The host needs to prepare some questions to be asked to the couples. For eg - questions like interests and hobbies, place where they met first or the most happiest moment. 
2. First, call all the males in a room. Ask the questions and note down all the answers given by each of them 
3. Next, call the females inside the room and let the males leave the room. 
4. Ask the same questions and note down the answers. 
5. Now, call all the males inside and match the answers of both the partners. 
6.The couple with the highest number of matched answers wins and are called the 'Perfect Match'.

Cupid's Tree Scavenger Hunt
Things Needed: 
Tree branch 
Jar 
Marbles or stones 
Paper 
Small gifts 
String 

How to play: 
1. Set up a Valentine's tree centerpiece on the dining room table. A small bare branch held upright in a jar of marbles or stones works well.
2. Write clues on small pieces of paper for items that the kids must find or make of paper and hang on the tree. Then tie the clues onto the branches of the tree.
3. When the kids come back with the last item, have small gifts waiting under the tree.

Tips for Clues: 
To create clues, try the following, or use your own funny riddles: 
1. I like to bark and chase a stick. Draw a picture of me and hang it up quick. 
2. I've got five points and twinkle in the sky. Cut me out of tinfoil and put me up high. 
3. Although my name rhymes with stupid, I'm as cute as can be. Cut my shape out of paper and hang me on the tree. 

Valentine's Day Word Games
This is a word game where famous pairs come together.
How to play:
Divide the children into 2 teams and form two rows facing each other. The first player on one side begins by asking the first player on the other team to complete this famous couple:
"Romeo and ....." the opposing player says "Juliet"
Continue down the row of players and then the other team starts...."peanut butter and ....." 
"jelly"
"Cookies and......." - milk
"Ram and......" Sita
"Cinderella and ....." - Prince Charming
"Heer and ....." - Ranjah
And so on.

Variation:
This game can also be played using hearts that had been cut into two piece puzzles. Children can be asked to match the hearts.

Love Story 
How to play:
Give each player a piece of paper and a pencil.
Explain to them that they are working as a team to write a Love Story section by section.
Each player writes a portion of the story as per your instructions. 
After each instruction the papers are folded and passed to the next writer. 
When the instructions are completed, each player/writer will have a story in their hands. 
Take turns unfolding the papers and reading the stories.

Suggested writing instructions:
Girl Character's name -->pass
Description of Girl -->pass
Boy character's name -->pass
Description of him-->pass
How the boy and girl meet-->pass
First words boy said to girl-->pass
How she replied-->pass
What happened next-->pass
What did their friends say/do? -->pass

Other options for plot turns:
What did the neighbors say ? 
What happened on their first Date?
Where did they get married ? Kids ? Pets ? Adventures ?
What did the newspaper print about them ?
Use famous people and places.

Valentine Charades
How to play:
Before the party write some appropriate phrases, book titles, song titles and famous love stories (movies). 
Place the slips of paper into an empty heart box.
Divide the players into teams and have them play facing each other. 
Each player will draw a slip of paper from the heart box and in turn act out their song, book, title etc. for their respective team.

Clues and Hints to remember:
NO talking!
Open hands represents book
Cranking motion represents movie
Waving hand before and open mouth represents Song
Tugging on your ear represents "sounds like"
Holding up one finger means 1st word etc.
Touching your nose indicates correct answer.

Throwing the Smile 
In this game, players are forbidden to smile, but trust us--giggling and laughing will abound. 
Things Needed: 
A place where everyone can sit in a circle 

How to play:
Players sit in a circle, making sure they can see everyone else. One player starts the game by smiling widely, while all the other players are somber. 
This player then uses his hand to wipe the smile off his face and throw it to another player who has to catch the smile with his hand and put it on.
This new then wipe off the smile to throw to someone else--though he will probably choose to mug wildly at everyone for a few minutes before relinquishing his happy role. 
Meanwhile, all other players must sit stone-faced. One smirk and they're out.

Tips: 
The youngest players are the least successful at winning this game (they simply can't stop themselves from laughing), but they also tend to enjoy it the most.

Gigglebelly 
Just the name of this game cracks kids up; playing it only intensifies their joy. 

How to play:
Have one player lie down on his back. 
The next player lies down with his head resting on the first player's belly and the next player lies down with her head on the second player's belly. 
Arrange all the players until everyone is zigzagged around the lawn or floor, each with his or her head on someone else's belly (if possible, make the line into a loop so that the last player can put her head on the first player's belly).
Then, the first player shouts, loud and clear, "Ha!" 
The second player responds with a vigorous, "Ha, ha!" then the third player chimes in, "Ha, ha, ha!" 
Continue until all players have shouted out their "Ha's" or (more likely) have dissolved into uncontrollable laughter, with heads bouncing on the bellies of giggling friends, uncles, cousins or grandmothers.

Valentine's Day SMS

Romantic Valentine SMS
No poems no fancy words I just want the world to know that I LOVE YOU my Princess with all my heart. Happy Valentines Day.
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My eyes are blind without your eyes to see,
Like a rose without color. Always be there in my life sweetheart.
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U r unique
U r caring and
U r the Best.
And I am d luckiest to have U in my life!
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY MY SWEET HEART!
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Without Love -- days are sad day, moan day, tears day, waste day, thirst day, fright day, shatter day. So be in love everyday...Wish you a Happy Valentines Day. 
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If I could die early I would ask God if I could be your guardian angel, so I could wrap my wings around you and embrace you whenever you feel alone. 
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Let's share the world
A sea is for you, and waves are for me.
The sky is for you, and stars are for me.
The sun is for you, and light is for me.
Everything is for you, and you are for me.
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Here is my heart, it is yours so take it,
Treat it gently, please do not break it.
Its full of love thats good and true,
So please keep it always close to u.


Miss You SMS
If u wanna know how much I miss you, 
Try to catch rain drops, 
The ones u catch is how much u miss me,
and the ones you miss is how much I miss
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Memories sometimes behave in a crazy way. They leave u alone, 
when u are in a crowd & when u are alone they stand along with u like a crowd.
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In School, They Taught Me That
1 hour = 60 Mints
1 Min = 60 Secs
But They Never Told Me That
1 Sec Without You = 100 Years: 
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When the sky looks blue "I Miss u" when the dreams come true "I Miss u" when the flowers covered with dew "I Miss u" when the day comes new "I Miss u" 
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I heard someone whisper your name, but when I turned to see who it was, I noticed it was alone, then realized it was my heart beat telling me “I MISS U” 
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In The Flower My Rose Is You,
In The Diamond My Kohinoor Is You,
In The Sky My Moon Is You,
I'm Only Body My Heart Is You,
That's Why I Always MISS YOU

Love SMS
If you wake up 1 day and were asked to have a wish, what would it be? Mine would be that our love would last until you see an apple in an orange tree
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I finally got my past, present and future tenses correct today. I loved you. I love you. I will love you forever! :). 
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'I Trust You' is a better compliment than 'I Love You' because you may not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust.
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24hrs make a lovely day,
7 days make a lovely week,
52 weeks make a lovely year & knowing a
Person like u will make my life lovely.
Happy Valentines Day
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If Your asking if I Need U the answer is 4Ever
If Your asking if I'll Leave U the answer is Never
If Your asking what I value the Answer is U
if Your asking if I love U the answer is I do. 
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God is wise when he did not put a price tag on you darling. If he did, I won’t be able to afford to have a boyfriend (girlfriend) as precious as you.

Propose SMS
If I reached for your hand , will u hold it ?
If I hold out my arms, will u hug me ?
If I go for your lips, will u kiss me ?
If I capture ur heart , will u love me ?? 
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As days go by, my feelings get stronger,
To be in ur arms, I can't wait any longer.
Look into my eyes & u'll see that it's true,
Day & Night my thought r of U.. 
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All I wanted was sum1 2 care 4 me
All I wanted was sum1 who'd b there 4 me
All I ever wanted was sum1 who'd b true
All I ever wanted was sum1 like U... 
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Kiss SMS
Kiss is not like Nokia...Connecting People
Kiss is not like Nike..Just Do It.
Kiss is not like Pepsi..Yeh Dil Maange More
But Kiss is like Pan Parag..Ek Se Mera Kya Hoga
Happy Valentines Day
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If a kiss was a raindrop i'd send u showers. 
If a hug was a second i'd send u hours. 
If a smile was water i'd send u a sea. 
If love was a person i'd send u me.....
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Love is blind
Be very kind
When I kiss you
Please don’t mind
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O my dear Valentine
Whats life ?
Life is love.
Whats love ?
Love is kissing.
Whats kissing ?
Come here and I show you.
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What is the kiss in view....... 
Geometry:- "Kiss is the shortest distance between 2 Lips" 
Economics:- "Kiss is that thing 4 which DEMAND is always higher than SUPPLY" 
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Physics:- "Kiss is the process of charging up human bodies" 
Computer:- "Like bodies are connected without any DATA CABLE"
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Kisses blown are kisses wasted. 
kisses are not kisses unless they are tasted. 
kisses spread germs and germs are hated. 
but you can kiss me baby i am vaccinated


Valentine's Day Messages

Valentine's Day is a day to express your feelings and renew the bond of love you share with your Valentine.

Hi My sweet Heart,
I Miss U Very Much! 
I need you in my life because I LOVE YOU.
I LOVE YOU forever.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.

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Valentine is near
Just wishing you were here
You will always be near
My heart will never be the same
Beneath my skin, my soul lies waiting for you
Everyday I think of you I feel blue
Never give up hope
Remembering the first kiss
All I ask is to be with you
And for you to be my Valentine
For I will always cherish your heart in mine.

Valentine's Day Fun Fact

Here is the most enjoyable and unbelievable collection of Valentine's Day Fun Facts. Share these fun facts with your friends to amaze them this Valentine Day.

• About 1 billion Valentine's Day cards are exchanged in US each year. That's the largest seasonal card-sending occasion of the year, next to Christmas.
• Women purchase 85% of all valentines.
• In order of popularity, Valentine's Day cards are given to teachers, children, mothers, wives, sweethearts and pets.
• Parents receive 1 out of every 5 valentines.
• About 3% of pet owners will give Valentine's Day gifts to their pets.
• Valentine's Day and Mother's Day are the biggest holidays for giving flowers.
• Worldwide, over 50 million roses are given for Valentine's Day each year.
• California produces 60 percent of American roses, but the vast number sold on Valentine's Day in the United States are imported, mostly from South America. Approximately 110 million roses, the majority red, will be sold and delivered within a three-day time period.
• 73% of people who buy flowers for Valentine's Day are men, while only 27 percent are women.
• Men buy most of the millions of boxes of candy and bouquets of flowers given on Valentine's Day.
• In the Middle Ages, young men and women drew names from a bowl to see who their valentines would be. They would wear these names on their sleeves for one week. To wear your heart on your sleeve now means that it is easy for other people to know how you are feeling.
• The Italian city of Verona, where Shakespeare's lovers Romeo and Juliet lived, receives about 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet every Valentine's Day.
• Richard Cadbury invented the first Valentines Day candy box in the late 1800s.
• Alexander Graham Bell applied for his patent on the telephone, an "Improvement in Telegraphy", on Valentine's Day, 1876.
• The oldest surviving love poem till date is written in a clay tablet from the times of the Sumerians, inventors of writing, around 3500 B.C
• Amongst the earliest Valentine's Day gifts were candies. The most common were chocolates in heart shaped boxes.
• In some countries, a young woman may receive a gift of clothing from a prospective suitor. If the gift is kept, then it means she has accepted his proposal of marriage
• If an individual thinks of five or six names considered to be suitable marriage partners and twists the stem of an apple while the names are being recited, then it is believed the eventual spouse will be the one whose name was recited at the moment the stem broke.
• In Medieval times, girls ate unusual foods on St Valentine's Day to make them dream of their future husband.

Valentine's Day Superstitions

It is said that the kind of bird a girl watches on Valentine's Day predicts her future husband. For instance:

Sparrow: a poor man
Owl: remain spinster
Bluebird: a happy man
Blackbird: a priest or clergyman
Crossbill: an argumentative man

• If an apple is cut in half, the number of seeds found inside the fruit will indicate the number of children that individual will have.
• To be awoken by a kiss on Valentine's Day is considered lucky.
• On Valentine's Day, the first guy's name you read in the paper or hear on the TV or radio will be the name of the man you will marry.
• If you see a squirrel on Valentine's Day, you will marry a cheapskate who will hoard all your money.
• If you see a goldfinch on Valentine's Day, you will marry a millionaire.
• If you see a robin on Valentine's Day, you will marry a crime fighter - maybe they mean Batman!
• If you see a flock of doves on Valentine's Day, you will have a happy, peaceful marriage.
• If you find a glove on the road on Valentine's Day, your future beloved will have the other missing glove.

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women

I am going to reveal to you the number #1 mistake men make when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women.

What do you think is the reason why most guys out there just can't get a date, a number or a kiss from a woman?

  It's because they treat every single woman like a princess and put them on a pedestal ... whereas they should really treat them like their little bratty sister. This is what gets women attracted and fall in love with you.

If you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy then no wonder women tell you that they just want to be friends with you.

When you see an attractive woman, what do you do to get her attention? Do you go up to her and pay her a compliment? Do you ask her if she wants a drink? Do you tell her how beautiful she is? Do you introduce yourself and ask what her name is?

Man, why do you make me bang my head on my keyboard? You won't get a woman to give you
her phone number like that! Now look, most guys think that to successfully attract a woman, you need to be nice to them, drive a sports car, have a load of cash in your wallet and work out every week just to look a bit like Arnold.

You couldn't be more wrong. It's all bullshit!

In fact, you may have just made the biggest mistake in your life when it comes to women and dating. Every guy on this planet has been brainwashed into the belief that women will want to be with you if you are nice to them, treat them like a princess and pay for drinks and dinner.

You couldn't be further from the truth. But it's not your fault. Blame TV, Hollywood and magazines. You have been conditioned to believe that this is what makes women get attracted to you.

Now listen, me and many of my friends who are true ladies-men aren't rich, good looking or handsome. We're just regular guys like you.

But we can get so many phone numbers from women one single day you wouldn't even believe me if I told you.

So what's our secret? How do we do it?

It's because we tease women, we accuse them of hitting on us, bust their balls and are cheeky when we talk to them. We are the complete opposite of what a clingy nice-guy
does. We don't offer them drinks, we don't pay compliments and we certainly don't invite them to a romantic candle light dinner.

And guess what?

They LOVE us for that. Women get attracted and want to be with men that are different from all the other guys they have dated in the past...and we give them precisely that.

So if you want to be able to do the same and literally get women to fight for YOUR attention, start treating them like your bratty little sister and say "HEY! Will you stop staring at my ass all the time? I'm not a sex-object you know?"

Once you truly GET IT what makes women attracted to men, you can write your own ticket in the dating world. Enjoy!!!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Saying I Love You

I adore you.

I am infatuated with you.

I appreciate you.

I can't live without you.

I can't stop thinking about you when we're apart.

I cherish you.

I dream of you.

I live for our love.

I love being around you.

I need you by my side.

I need you.

I respect you.

I value you.

I want a lifetime with you.

I want you.

I worship you.

I yearn for you.

I'm a better person because of you.

I'm blessed to have you in my life.

I'm devoted to you.

I'm fond of you.

I'm lost without you.

I'm nothing without you.

I'm passionate about you.

I'm thankful for you.

I'm yours.

Me and you. Always.

My love is unconditional.

Our love is invaluable.

Take me, I'm yours.

The thought of you brings a smile to my face.

Ti tengu cara (to female) or Ti tengu caru (to male).

Together, forever.

We were meant to be together.

You are a blessing in disguise.

You are an angel from God.

You are like a candle burning bright.

You are my crush.

You are my dear.

You are my everything.

You are my one and only.

You are my reason for living.

You are my strength.

You are my sunshine.

You are my treasure.

You are my world.

You are precious.

You are the light of my life.

You are the reason I'm alive.

You bring happiness to rainy days.

You bring joy to my life.

You cast a spell on me that can't be broken.

You complete me.

You drive me wild.

You fill me with desire.

You fill my heart.

You give me wings to fly.

You had me from hello.

You hold the key to my heart.

You inspire me.

You intoxicate me.

You lift me up to touch the sky.

You light my flame.

You light up my life.

You make me hot.

You make my heart skip a beat.

You make my world a better place.

You mean the world to me.

You motivate me.

You rock my world.

You seduce me.

You set my heart on fire.

You simply amaze me.

You stole my heart.

You sweeten my sour days.

You turn my world upside down.

You turn the darkness into life.

You're a dream come true.

You're a gem.

You're a twinkle in my eye.

You're absolutely wonderful.

You're all I want.

You're as beautiful as a sunset.

You're beautiful.

You're charming.

You're enchanting.

You're heavenly.

You're my angel.

You're my prefect match .

You're one in a million.

You're priceless.

You're sexy.

You're the apple of my eye.

You're the best thing that ever happened to me.

You're the best.

You're the diamond in the rough.

You're the one for me.

You're the one I've always wished for.

-- ALAGARAJAN --